LoveAnotherWay™ JumpStart Guide

When my son was addicted to drugs, I was worried. But eventually I went from "worried" to "warrior" and inspired my son to turn his life around.

Addiction is a disease. But it doesn't have to define you. The raw and honest truth about addiction. Hear from parents, addicts, and recovery professionals as they share words of encouragement and reassurance, and practical tools and advice.

Addiction is not the end of the story!

  • The 8 challenges you MUST overcome right now if you want your child to recover.
  • The 3 shocking truths that will inspire an addict to recover faster than anything else. 159 addicts agree.
  • There are the rules for recovery. These seemingly contradictory rules are revealed by 154 parents who helped their children choose recovery.
  • What Recovery Professionals Admit Feeds Addiction… And how to reverse it the next time you speak to your child.

We can't do it for our son or daughter. But there are things we CAN do. Things we CAN say. To give our child the best chance at choosing recovery.


"So much pain, so much worry and fear. I can relate to so many of these experiences/fears/feelings. And I’m not alone.”

Your Son. Your Daughter. Their Addiction. We Can Help.
LoveAnotherWay JumpStart Is A 5-Module Self-Paced, When-You-Need-It Guide To Help You Worry Less And Take Back YOUR Power Over Addiction.



  • It's time to talk about addiction. It's time to stop hiding the shame.
  • The shocking truths 154 brave parents revealed about handling their addicted children
  • You know what your addicted child is saying. But it's not what you think. Recovery professionals know what your addicted child is trying to tell you - but they want you to know it too



  • How to stop enabling your child – as explained by an addict
  • Addicts speak out about a parent’s role during addiction and recovery
  • The hidden truth behind what addicts are really feeling but hiding from their parents
  • 3 surprising things your addicted son or daughter wants you to know so that you have less worry and feel less pain


“This helps me be compassionate instead of angry.”



  • The one tool that is the key to helping your child out of addiction
  • What therapists and recovery professionals say about getting help for YOU
  • Expert clinicians advice for battling guilt over your addicted child
  • Why our addicted children relapse
  • Addiction doesn't end when the drugs or alcohol stop.
  • Addiction is a disease. And it's not just theirs. It's ours too.
  • Rehab owner reveals: There’s one simple trick to help parents breakthrough to their addicted child



  • When you know your adult child is in recovery ... and your role as a parent has changed.
  • Unusual strategies for helping your son or daughter through recovery WITHOUT sacrificing your own needs
  • Meet the #1 challenge all parents of addicted children face ... and the strange, yet effective technique for overcoming it
  • Addiction has a ripple effect. It touches not only the addict but also the family. Find out how this cycle can be broken.
  • The #1 mistake parents make when realizing their child is addicted – and it’s okay
  • You might be making this common mistake when setting boundaries with your kids.
  • You might be surprised how changes YOU make in YOUR life affect your son or daughter in addiction.
  • How to handle the phone/text manipulation of our addicted children.
  • A new approach to helping your addicted child recover.


“It's starting to feel good to say no.”


MANAGE ADDICTION CHAOS BLUEPRINT™ – Simple, powerful ways to make decisions about your addicted child so you can reclaim your confidence.

Addiction is a disease. But it's not just a disease. It's a family disease. And this is the guidebook that will help you understand it.

See What Other Moms Are Saying


“Thank you Barbara, this really helps me. I have been rescuing my son for so many years. Now, he and I both know the dance is up!"


“Living with an addict is painful. This program offers a new way to deal with it.”


“So helpful to understand the impact of a well-crafted boundary. Very practical tools - amazing!”


“So much advice I can actually use. I made a list of things to remember, that are helpful/not helpful when the going gets tough to stay the course.”


“The idea of 'loving them to death' really hit home."


“I didn't know what enabling was until I read this. God I wish I would have known this years ago. Oh my, all the thoughts and times I enabled and thought I was just trying to help because I loved him so much. This is amazing to read.”


“Wow - This really resonated with me. It's so interesting to know that a parent is not to blame regardless of what they did to or with the child while raising them."

Addiction stole eight years of my son's life.

He lied. He disappeared. He ignored my calls. He left me worried about getting a heartbreaking knock at the door...

When I did see him, he just wasn’t the same. He was only a shell of who he used to be.

I tried everything to support him.

I prayed & prayed that all of my efforts would change who he was…

I gave him all the love & support a parent can possibly give…

But it didn’t seem to matter.

I felt like I couldn’t get through to him.

And if you’re still reading this…

It’s probably because you feel the same way.

How do you get your child to realize the grave consequences of their actions?

It's complicated.

What should you say to them?

How should you say it?

When should you say it?

What should you give to them?

What should you not give to them?

If you struggle with these questions, you're not alone.

Because here’s the truth:

It’s almost impossible to figure out the answers yourself.

I lived with that for 8 long years as I scrambled to help my son.

Eight years of exhaustion.

Thousands of dollars.

Dozens of meetings.

Hundreds of hours of research.

Eventually, I conducted a multi-year study... I interviewed addicts themselves, parents of addicted children, recovery professionals, and expert clinicians.

Once I understood and applied these real life insights to my parenting...

My son chose recovery.

All because I was able to ‘see inside his mind’ thanks to the raw, honest truth about how to parent an addict...

I heard everything I needed to help my child recover.

Now, you can, too.


Barbara Decker, Certified Family Recovery Specialist (CFRS)

P.S.: My "Love Another Way" approach is what I wish existed... when my son faced addiction. It would’ve saved me YEARS of stress & wondering if my son was going to make it another day…

(Not to mention saving me many thousands of dollars spent on ineffective rehab & counseling.)


“When I first heard the expression, Building up their Protective Factors, I didn't know how to help my daughter. Now I know this program is building up my own protective factors too.”

You're not alone. Our LoveAnotherWay JumpStart Guide is here to offer support and give your child the best possible chance of recovery.

You can have instant lifetime access for only $147.

** Due to the sensitive nature of this subject, some names and photos have been changed. The quotes are real.

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