Your loved one constantly creates chaos. There's no easy answer...
But I can show you simple, powerful ways to make decisions about your struggling adult child so you can reclaim your confidence.
You know something is destroying your family. You don't know what to do anymore. But there's hope.
Watch this video or read on below to learn more...
INTRODUCING
The Manage Any Chaos Blueprint

The Manage Any Chaos Blueprint is the solution I wish I had when my child was addicted. Now I'm sharing it with you...
If this is keeping you up at night, don't worry. You're not alone.
I've been there too.
Moms:
Together, we can recognize our response patterns, calm the chaos, and conquer the worry.
It was difficult taking on the responsibility for my child's actions.
But eventually I learned how those suffering from substance abuse think... and how to support them during this difficult time.
I often felt alone or as if I wasn't doing enough to help my son. When a sign of how to clear my mind didn't look like it would come, I made my own.
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The struggle is real.
Wondering whether or not our decisions are supporting our children, or simply enabling them can keep us parents up at night...
Tossing and turning every night, our minds racing with worry about our children...
It's no way to sleep... and it's certainly no way to live...
And It Doesn't Have To Be That Way!
It's not easy being a parent. But I've got your back.
This is NOT free.
It's my guide to surviving motherhood during Eric's dark days of mind disease and addiction.
So, What Am I Asking $27 For?
Let Me Tell You...
I'm getting word out through ads. Unfortunately, these ads are quite expensive...
So with every purchase of this blueprint, I'm providing more guidance to you while you help me to empower other parents in need.
The Manage Any Chaos Blueprint
THIS GUIDE IS PERFECT FOR...
The blueprint works in all of these circumstances.
Frequently Asked Questions
How does Manage ANY Chaos Blueprint work?
It gives you a simple, 4-question process to follow whenever chaos hits.
Instead of reacting right away, you pause, use the Blueprint, and decide what feels right for you.
This helps you respond with calm confidence — not guilt, fear, or pressure — so you stay in control no matter what your child is doing.
Why does this work when nothing else has?
Because it doesn’t try to fix your child — it helps you change how you respond.
Most advice focuses on controlling or rescuing your child. The Blueprint helps you stay calm, think clearly, and respond intentionally instead of reacting in panic.
That simple shift gives you back your power… and changes everything.
My son or daughter isn’t addicted — will Manage ANY Chaos Blueprint still work if they’re dealing with a mental illness?
Yes. The Blueprint works for any situation where your adult child’s emotions or behaviour create chaos or urgency — whether it’s addiction, anxiety, depression, or another mental health challenge. We refer to these collectively as "Mind Diseases."
Manage ANY Chaos Blueprint is not about treating addiction or illness. It’s about helping you stay calm, clear, and grounded so you can make thoughtful choices instead of reacting out of fear or guilt.
Parents of children with an addiction and/or mental illness use it successfully to create more peace and stability in their lives.
What exactly do I get with the Manage ANY Chaos Blueprint?
You get three tools:
Downloadable Blueprint – A 4-question guide to help you pause and respond calmly instead of reacting in crisis.
Video Training – Barbara explains how to use it and why it works.
Real Example – Barbara shows exactly how she used it with her son.
Together, they help you regain control, respond with love, and protect your peace.
Who is Barbara, and why should I trust her?
Barbara Decker is a Certified Family Recovery Specialist and the founder of Live Well and Fully. She’s also a mom who’s been through the pain of having an adult child struggle with addiction and mental illness.
Everything she teaches comes from her own experience — the tools she created to stop living in chaos and rebuild peace in her own life.
Thousands of parents have used her methods to do the same, which is why her work is trusted, practical, and proven to help.
See What Other Moms Are Saying
Colette Plante
“I was spinning my wheels for years on the rollercoaster of chaos that was my adult addicted son’s life. Live Well and Fully helped me get off that ride when I could no longer continue in his chaos, and showed me how to find peace & joy.”
Nora F.
“Barbara's program is a lifesaver. Her courses provide actionable, practical advice for dealing with the chaos of an addicted child. This has been the best thing I have done for myself in a long time. They are WELL worth the investment!”
Debby McKercher
“I was enabling, living in chaos and not knowing what to do. Thanks to Barbara Decker's work I have found peace again.”
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“I found this program at a time when I felt powerless, fearful and alone. It has helped me to learn strategies to deal with the constant chaos that I was living in. I have learned how to set boundaries and find some peace. So much support ❤️”
I hope you find a pocket of joy today, because you are worth it.
Barbara
Barbara Decker, Certified Family Recovery Specialist (CFRS)

Live Well & Fully provides personal development and family coaching services only. We do not diagnose, treat, or offer medical or mental health advice for any condition, including addiction or substance use disorders, nor do we seek or retain any information shared by a student about anyone’s medical situation. The information and strategies shared here are for educational and personal growth purposes. Always consult a qualified healthcare or mental health professional for advice regarding any medical or mental health concerns. Individual results will vary, and participation in our programs does not replace professional treatment.
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