Certified Family Recovery Specialist and Parent Recovery Advocate, Barbara Decker Reveals How Her...
Cognitive Care Plan
…Gives you the power to understand mind diseases, learn how to communicate with and better support a struggling loved one... reduce your stress and anxiety... and start prioritizing your own health…
…even if you've tried other methods without success.
If you're trying to manage and understand a loved one's mental illness or addiction, you might find my Cognitive Care Plan helpful. It has worked for so many already, and I believe it can work for you too.
I am really focusing on enjoying each day and being more present for those I love. Life is too short not too!
- Karen
Hi, my name is Barbara Decker and I’m a Certified Family Recovery Specialist (CFRS) and a Parent Recovery Advocate.
I have walked the tough journey of dealing with my loved one's addiction and mental illness. My credentials aren't merely letters added to my name; they are badges of courage, resilience, and victory over the seemingly insurmountable.
But that's not the whole story.
My life was a whirlwind of emotions before I figured this stuff out. I was the epitome of a frustrated, confused, resentful woman, at my wit's end, unsure of how best to aid my son, Eric, who was diagnosed with multiple mental illnesses and, as it turned out later, also addicted to meth.
I was drowning in my tumultuous emotions, feeling out of control and desperate for answers. The more I pushed, the more Eric distanced himself from me. My attempts at helping him only seemed to exacerbate his challenges.
Then, a critical piece of wisdom came my way…
“You Can’t Change Anyone Else.
The Only Person You Can Change Is You.”
Accepting this truth was an uphill battle, but it was the turning point in my life.
I did something counterintuitive: I shifted my focus from Eric to myself. I stopped trying to fix him and started caring for myself.
A change that encouraged Eric to make better choices for himself, too.
This realization laid the foundation for what I’m going to share with you today — a way to understand mental illnesses and addictions, enabling women to deal with their own emotions and stress while effectively supporting their loved ones.
This plan does not just help women cope but also enhances their relationships with their loved ones. It gives women the understanding and empathy needed to reduce stress and have more compassion. And it restores what are often very fractured family relationships.
It's all about understanding what your loved one is going through — the very real changes in their brain that stymie their attempts to get better — communicating with them effectively, and creating a support system.
But remember, while you're caring for your loved one…
It's also important to take care of yourself
Let's face it:
Dealing with a loved one's addiction or mental illness can be a lot. But you CAN learn and adapt to these complex situations, and within a short amount of time, start feeling more confident and in control.
This isn't about finding “quick fix” solutions, but about learning and growing in the long run.
It's common knowledge that having support, whether from professionals or friends, is crucial when helping a loved one through mental illness. But here's something that might surprise you:
How you communicate and set boundaries can make a significant difference in your relationship with your loved one.
Little Things You Say (and Do)
Can Have a HUGE Impact!
If you've been led to believe that you need to cater to their every need or lose your own identity in the process, let me tell you that's not the right way. There needs to be a balance in how you approach this situation.
This is where the Cognitive Care Plan comes into play.
I've assembled this plan based on my own research into the latest peer-reviewed findings, discussions with experts, and real-world experience. I haven’t found anyone else teaching this stuff — it's only available here.
I'm inviting you to take a closer look at this information, particularly if you're in the challenging position of supporting someone with a mental illness or ongoing substance use disorder. Trust me, this plan can change the way you see things.
My research, discussions with experts, and experiences with Eric show that sticking to a consistent, manageable support and communication plan is better than lengthy, tiring sessions that can cause you to burn out in no time.
And this Cognitive Care Plan is just that:
Consistent, Manageable, and
Most Importantly, Effective
Maybe you're skeptical about the Cognitive Care Plan. But trust me, it could be game-changing for you.
Look around at people attending long therapy sessions, reading self-help books, or trying out ineffective methods. Do you see any notable improvement in their situations over the past few months? Chances are, probably not.
The Cognitive Care Plan, on the other hand, promises meaningful improvement in a much shorter time.
I am proud of how far I have come with less worry, more self care and how much I have learned and how much it has helped not only me but my son and all my family.
- [name withheld due to privacy]
Remember, you don't need to spend endless hours or use complex techniques to engage with your loved one in ways that protect your sanity and can actually bring you closer together, despite their challenges.
With the Cognitive Care Plan, you can use these age-old principles in a way that suits the fast-paced modern lifestyle. You can start seeing results without decoding complex theories or spending hours each day. Of course, it will require some effort, but compared to other methods, the results are noticeable often within just a few weeks.
The change you've been looking for comes with the Mind Diseases approach.
The truth is, you're likely short on time and energy. The good news is you don't need lengthy stress-filled days to care for your loved ones. Short, high-quality engagement is often more effective.
So, relax... The Mind Diseases approach was specially designed for women like you.
The Mind Diseases approach uses a well-structured process to understand and cope with your loved one's mind diseases. With a unique mix of scientific and clinical knowledge, effective communication strategies, and setting healthy boundaries, this approach has already helped a multitude of women.
A spiralling conversation turned around when I inserted a pause and boundary in conversation.
- Susan
Did You Know?
Long before mental health and addiction support became more talked about and long before you had to navigate this complex journey on your own, the most successful caregivers were using the basic principles found in our Mind Diseases approach.
Also, Did You Know?
The old ways of ignoring the problem, or believing that you can control or fix your loved one's behavior may give you temporary relief, but you're only adding to your stress and potentially worsening the situation.
How do we know all of this?
I'm the creator of the Mind Diseases program, a trusted resource for women like you. Our program is recognized for offering quick, replicable results. Here's why:
Our Method Is
Refreshingly Unique
I can assure you, I've just about seen it all.
I've witnessed it, experimented with it, and found what genuinely works. That is the Mind Diseases approach, backed by science and compassion, tried and tested by women in similar situations.
There are no miracle cures or magic formulas here. You're too smart to believe in shortcuts when it comes to someone's health.
But the good news is there IS a quicker, more effective way to cope.
It requires a shift in perspective and a bit of commitment on your part. But if you're willing to give it a try, it's almost impossible for it not to bear fruit.
Remember, this is not about blind faith. I designed the Mind Diseases approach with compassionate results-driven women like you in mind.
It's meticulously crafted to help you understand WHY loved ones struggle so much, gain a support system of other women facing similar challenges, and improve the overall quality of life for both you and your loved ones.
Something crucial you need to remember...
Unless you've spent your life delving into the fields of mental health, addiction, and family dynamics, this information isn't typically found in the public domain.
I really liked how interactive the program was, going over homework and the ideas from other women helps so much.
- Nancy
You could, of course, continue to rely on Google, YouTube, books, or other do-it-yourself options as you tackle your loved one's struggles by yourself.
But, with my many years of experience, knowledge and understanding condensed into a comprehensive program, why would you need to?
Therapists, counselors, and support groups can offer help with how you feel about your situation, but they often come short when it comes to actionable strategies — things you can DO — that make a real difference.
In contrast, my approach focuses on deepening your knowledge and understanding and helps you apply that knowledge to your family situation. So you can choose new ways of being that don’t trigger the disease response and finally get through to your loved one.
Less anger towards my son. Less guilt that I should be able to fix this. Just the support of the group on the calls (as well as regular zoom meetings) has made a huge difference. I'm not wearing out my family and friends like I use to.
- Carla
This isn't hypothetical; it's based on concrete evidence. Numerous case studies involving women in similar situations who have managed to find stability in their lives despite their loved one's battles, speak volumes about this plan's effectiveness.
So, There's a Decision to be Made:
Either embrace this tried-and-tested plan to embark on your journey towards a healthier life or continue to feel disoriented and overwhelmed, struggling to figure things out alone.
Keep in mind, there's nothing quite like this available out there; a straightforward, all-encompassing approach to understanding and managing your loved one's mental illness, while also ensuring your wellness.
It caters to women who are caregivers, family members, or otherwise feeling weighed down by the complexities of mental health and addiction.
Many will tell you that understanding and helping your loved one requires significant effort, sacrifice, and perhaps a psychology degree.
This Isn't the Case!
My Cognitive Care Plan is all you need, irrespective of your background or caregiving journey stage. It doesn't expect you to suspend your own life or experience guilt over prioritizing your self-care.
When you compare the dissatisfaction and stress associated with traditional coping methods with the positive change achieved through this Cognitive Care Plan, the difference is evident.
This success is attributed to the unique elements of the plan that you're about to discover.
Are you ready for a deeper dive?
Let Me Break it Down for You
Mind Diseases is a 10-week program where you get to work in a group setting, and we're here to help you handle the tough stuff in life — you know, like when a loved one is dealing with addiction or mental illness.
By the end of our time together you’ll finally understand why your loved one may be behaving in ways that are hard to understand, so you can interact with them in a more effective way that takes the realities of their disease into consideration.
When you understand how mind diseases behave, you are better able to choose good priorities for yourself, set and hold reasonable boundaries and won't feel "guilty" living your life.
And no: we won't just be throwing info at you; you'll have the opportunity to ask questions at every step along the way. Get advice tailored to your situation, and work on solid plans of action.
Essentially, we're giving you a toolbox filled with not just theory, but practical stuff you can actually use.
I am proud of the fact that I've stuck with the program and given it my best effort to help me help myself and my son.
- Laurie
Now, these aren't just sit-and-listen talks. Each week you’re invited to join interactive coaching sessions — we call them “Progress Calls” — where you can ask questions, share your insights, and hear from other women just like you.
Our coaches have a lot of real-world experience dealing with mind diseases.
They’ve worked through this material as a student first, and have generously offered to come back and support you in your journey.
We're ready to pass on the benefit of our own experiences and knowledge, to give you some solid, practical skills for taking care of both your loved one and yourself.
You Don't Have to Feel Helpless or Lost
We're here to help you build up your strength, with strategies that are based on real evidence and professional know-how.
We're not just coaches, though. We're also people who've been there, done that, and know firsthand how tough it can be.
We can suggest strategies on how to deal with the stress and pressure that come with having a loved one battling mental illness. We can share what we've learned about looking after your loved one and yourself, putting you in control and cutting down on those scary, helpless, uncertain feelings.
You’re not in this alone.
You'll be Part of a Community of Women
A sisterhood of sorts. Women who are going through the same kind of stuff.
It's good to know you've got people to lean on when times are hard or when you need a little advice or reassurance. It's like having your own support team, ready to back you up when you need it.
They say knowledge is power, right?
Well, we're handing over the power to you. You'll get practical strategies and tools you can use to tackle what's ahead. You'll learn how to be there for your loved one while making sure you're looking after your own mental and emotional health too.
I got my life back. Yes, I still love my son and worry about him. But I'm realistic and understand that HE needs to make the changes and advocate for himself.
- [name withheld due to privacy]
Sounds pretty good, right? Let's chat a bit more about how you can get involved...
"But I'm feeling overwhelmed and helpless..."
It's completely understandable that you might feel this way. After all, you've been going through an incredibly tough time. But there is a solution: a Cognitive Care Plan.
This approach is designed to help you navigate the complex waters of mental illness and addiction. It gives you strategies to effectively interact with your loved one and helps you understand that you're not alone in this struggle.
"But I don't know how to help my loved one..."
Then there's no better time to start than now! Feeling unsure of how to help your loved one is completely normal. Most of us don't have the training or experience to know what to do. That's where the Cognitive Care Plan comes in. It equips you with the tools and knowledge you need to effectively communicate and support your loved one, all while taking care of your own mental health.
"But I feel guilty for setting boundaries..."
I understand completely — I used to feel the same way. Setting boundaries can feel like you're abandoning your loved one. However, through the Cognitive Care Plan, I learned that setting boundaries is not only necessary for your own well-being, but it's also crucial for helping your loved one.
It's about prioritizing health, both yours
and
theirs, without guilt.
"But I don't want to give up on my loved one..."
If that's how you're feeling, then you truly need this! It's not about giving up on your loved one, it's about understanding that their life choices are their responsibility, not yours. And it's about learning how to support them without enabling their disease.
The Cognitive Care Plan will show you how to do just that, all while improving your own well-being.
My family is seeing me take care of my priorities for myself. I would like to think they see me worry less and being more grounded and equipped about mental health and addiction.
- Kristina
You're Not Alone in This
You don't have to suffer in silence, struggling to reconcile your love for your family member with the pain of their disease. It's not surprising if you're feeling overwhelmed — dealing with addiction and mental illness is incredibly challenging.
But now, there's a more compassionate, understanding approach — a Cognitive Care Plan. It's not about simplistic solutions, but rather it's about understanding the complexities of mental illness and addiction.
And, most importantly, it's about caring for yourself, so you can be the best support to your loved one.
Our Mind Diseases 10-week online group coaching program is designed specifically for women who are dealing with the stress and challenges of caring for a loved one with an addiction, mental illness, or any other disease of the mind.
This program offers more than just support and understanding; it’s a tool for empowerment, designed to help you cope with your loved one's disease, improve relationships, and reduce stress.
Things are calmer, less stressful.
- Patricia
Our online platform offers weekly learning sessions and access to a private support group, creating an avenue for shared experiences, encouragement, and advice. We believe that no woman should have to face this journey alone.
Here's what you can expect from Mind Diseases:
- You will gain crucial insights into your loved one's behaviors and actions.
- Experience a shift in mindset that liberates you from guilt, responsibility, and shame tied to their actions.
- Learn the art of setting and maintaining boundaries without feeling guilty or selfish.
- Discover common mistakes people make when caring for a loved one with a mental illness, and how to avoid them.
- Implement strategies for prioritizing your own self-care needs.
Now, let's sum up what we've discussed:
Understanding your loved one's mental illness, establishing boundaries, and letting go of guilt are tangible steps towards regaining control. You don’t have to feel helpless or guilty; empowerment is the key.
Remember, you are not alone. You don't have to fix everything by yourself, and you should not feel to blame for your loved one's struggle.
Acceptance and understanding are powerful tools that can make a significant difference. They don't require you to compromise your wellbeing but enable you to make beneficial choices for yourself and your loved one.
The Mind Diseases program is not solely my brainchild. I've been fortunate to work with experienced counselors and therapists whose insights have shaped the program significantly.
There's a saying, "it takes a village to raise a child." In our case, it took a network of seasoned professionals and empathetic caregivers to create a system that supports women effectively.
However, I must caution you;
Mind Diseases is not for everyone:
- It does not promise effortless results. Every strategy requires commitment and work.
- It may not be suitable if you're unable to adjust your lifestyle and self-care routines.
- If your wellbeing is unaffected by your loved one's behaviors, you might not find value in our emphasis on self-care and boundary setting.
- If you feel too helpless to make a difference, let that notion go. We've seen women from all walks of life succeed with this program.
- If you're likely to sign up but not participate, you might want to reconsider. Taking action on what you learn is crucial to avoid escalating stress and feelings of helplessness.
Finally, dealing with a loved one's mental illness can be overwhelming, but you don't have to do it alone. With Mind Diseases, you can gain the knowledge, the support, and the strategies you need to navigate this challenging journey.
Mind Diseases:
Real-World Success Stories
My family is seeing me take care of my priorities for myself. I would like to think they see me worry less and being more grounded and equipped about mental health and addiction.
- Kristina
I got my life back. Yes, I still love my son and worry about him. But I'm realistic and understand that HE needs to make the changes and advocate for himself.
- [name withheld due to privacy]
I am really focusing on enjoying each day and being more present for those I love. Life is too short not too!
- Karen
Imagine waking up each day with newfound clarity and understanding of not just yourself, but also your loved ones struggling with mental health or addiction issues.
The journey is about finding effective ways to support your loved ones while maintaining your own mental health. It's about the small, everyday victories — recognizing an addiction trigger, implementing a new coping mechanism, or simply having a conversation that doesn't end in conflict.
Could you picture that in your life?
Don't let your loved ones' battles become your own personal struggle. Join the hundreds of other women who have embarked on this journey of understanding and support through our Mind Diseases program.
And let me also say…
What I’ve described might seem way too simple, but don't let that fool you. You know, like how E=mc² seems straightforward, but it's actually the foundation of some pretty mind-blowing physics theories. Albert Einstein said it best:
"Everything should be made as simple as possible, but not simpler."
With that in mind, I've tried to make dealing with mental health and addiction issues as uncomplicated as I can.
So, don't just brush off the simplicity of the Mind Diseases program. Yes, it's pretty straightforward — but give it a shot. It has the potential to seriously improve your life, I promise.
Now, you might be wondering about the price?
Let’s be honest; you’re paying a pretty high price right now, aren’t you?
The stress and uncertainty. The sleepless nights.
Not knowing what to do. Making things worse when you’re only trying to help.
Seeing your loved one continue to struggle. Not knowing how to help them.
That’s the price you’re paying right now. It’s too high, if you ask me. You deserve better.
When it comes to Mind Diseases, I wanted to make the investment an easy choice for any woman out there who's looking for a clear, simple, and effective way to help a loved one struggling with mental health or addiction issues.
So, instead of pricing it at $3000-$5000 where it would be out of reach for many women who desperately need it…
I settled on $1496.
Here's what you need to know:
This program is all about results, not frills. It's a solid, extensive, no-nonsense method that works, and works quickly. Provided you put it to work in your own life.
I've put in years of hard work — research, interviews, counseling sessions, and learning from the best in the field of mental health and addiction. I haven't reinvented the wheel — I've just made it easier to turn.
I’m committed to paying my coaches, and the rest of our support team, fairly for their contribution, as well.
So, I think $1496 is a fair price.
With this program, we promise a positive change in your life. You'll learn to understand your loved one's behavior and interact with them in a more understanding and compassionate way.
And all the while, you'll be taking care of your own mental health. No more guilt about putting yourself first, and being able to set healthy boundaries will make your relationship better.
I accept where my son is and I accept his life, despite things I do not agree with. It is his life to choose how he wants to live it!
- Laura
Let Me Sweeten
The Deal for You
When you join Mind Diseases today, as a Bonus, you also get instant access to our "Love Another Way" Jumpstart Guide.
Our students have called this a “Godsend”.
It’s a series of short videos, audio clips, and written stories of people struggling with addiction or another mind disease, recovery professionals, and even other women who have successfully healed.
It’s information you can digest quickly. It’s laid out in a way designed to jumpstart your progress to get quick results to urgent problems so you have a calmer mind to focus on the transformation heading your way.
The LoveAnotherWay JumpStart Guide sells on our website for $147, but it’s yours free with your enrollment in Mind Diseases.
And, as another Bonus, you also get a 30-minute private “Next Steps” call with a Love Another Way graduate coach at the end of the program to help you make a plan for the future.
During this private, one-on-one call you’ll set a vision for the future, identify any obstacles that might get in your way, and together you’ll create a plan to make Love Another Way your way of life.
Your automatic reaction.
So whenever something new comes up (and something new always seems to come up) you’ll know how to handle it.
A $250 value, you get 30 minutes with a Love Another Way coach for free.
That’s $397 in extra bonuses to help you get the most out of Mind Diseases — yours free when you join today.
Here’s Everything You Get:
The entire Mind Diseases package, including:
- Weekly videos from experts explaining what’s really going on in your loved one’s brain (so you understand WHY they struggle to make changes — the empathy and compassion you feel takes so much weight off your shoulders)
- Including advice on WHAT you can do to avoid triggering the disease (so instead of kicking off an argument or tantrum you get through to the person behind the disease)
- Weekly “Progress Calls” where you’ll gather as a group with your Love Another Way coach and fellow solution-oriented warriors to get your questions answered and share your biggest wins, takeaways and a-ha! moments
- The SECRET group where you can gather, share and ask your questions in between the weekly progress calls. Our coaches are on duty throughout the week and we commit to responding to your questions each day.
- A VIP invitation to my coach-a-thon where you can get my direct support and attention on anything you want to go deeper on — a priority you’re working on, a boundary you’re considering, or a communication approach you’re thinking about adopting
All this to help you:
- Gain crucial insights into your loved one's behaviors and actions.
- Experience a shift in mindset that liberates you from guilt, responsibility, and shame tied to their actions.
- Learn the art of setting and maintaining boundaries without feeling guilty or selfish.
- Discover common mistakes people make when caring for a loved one with a mental illness, and how to avoid them.
- Implement strategies for prioritizing your own self-care needs.
Plus, when you join today, you also get:
"Love Another Way" Jumpstart Guide. Our students have called this a “Godsend”.
It’s information you can digest quickly. Laid out in a way designed to jumpstart your progress to get quick results to urgent problems so you have a calmer mind to focus on the transformation heading your way.
And a 30-minute “Next Steps” call with a Love Another Way coach.
Near the end of our 10-weeks you’ll jump on zoom with your coach and map out a plan for the future. Together you’ll create a plan to make Love Another Way your way of life. Your automatic reaction.
So whenever something new comes up (and something new always seems to come up) you’ll know how to handle it.
Together these bonuses are worth $397, but you get them free when you join Mind Diseases for only $1496 today.
You Get Everything Today for $1496!
(payment plans available starting at $176/month)
I want to tell you something important, straight from my heart. Right now, you're carrying a heavy burden — dealing with addiction and/or mental illness and maintaining your emotional strength. It's a lot to handle.
There might be times when you find yourself unable to comprehend the actions of your loved one. You might struggle to understand why they act the way they do. And the guilt might creep in because you think you should be able to solve everything. It's a weary cycle.
Amidst this turmoil, the hope for a balanced life — one that can accommodate the challenges of mental illness — could feel like it's slowly fading away. Seeing others benefit from the "Mind Diseases" program might leave you feeling a pang of regret or envy, which is completely normal.
Here's the fact: The longer you hold off, the more it might feel like you're missing out on a chance to gain from a program that has helped many. A program that's currently at the most affordable price it's ever been.
But I have faith in you. I believe in your ability to make the right decision, not only for yourself but also for those you care about. Is it an easy decision? No. But could it lead to a greater understanding and empathy in your life? Absolutely.
Joining the program could mean a brighter future. Envision improved understanding of your loved one, better communication skills, learning to self-care without guilt, setting and maintaining healthy boundaries, nurturing compassion for their struggle, and letting go of the blame.
The choice is yours.
Take care of yourself,
Barbara 🙏
P.S — Every journey begins with a first step. Keep that in mind.
When you click the button below, you'll have access to the entire program and bonuses worth $397 for a total of $1496. It's a worthwhile investment in your future.
Frequently Asked Questions
“What will happen when I sign up?”
First, you’ll enter your secure payment info on the next page.
As soon as you do, you’re taken to a welcome video from me with instructions on exactly what to do to get started.
You also get this email from me with exactly what to do so you have access right away.
And I know it might feel weird buying on the internet and that technology is scary. Tech is my biggest headache in doing this work, and I kind of stumble through it. We will help you every step of the way with any tech challenges you might have and have a dedicated person on staff to support our students’ tech challenges
And, as a Bonus, you get instant access to our "Love Another Way" Jumpstart Guide.
Our students have called this a “Godsend”.
It’s a series of short videos, audio clips, and written stories of people struggling with addiction or another mind disease, recovery professionals, and even other women who have successfully healed.
It’s information you can digest quickly. It’s laid out in a way designed to jumpstart your progress to get quick results to urgent problems so you have a calmer mind to focus on the transformation heading your way.
And, as another Bonus, you also get a thirty-minute private “Next Steps” call with a Love Another Way graduate coach at the end of the program to help you make a plan for the future.
During this private, one-on-one call you’ll set a vision for the future, identify any obstacles that might get in your way, and together you’ll create a plan to make Love Another Way your way of life. Your automatic reaction. So whenever something new comes up (and something new always seems to come up) you’ll know how to handle it.
“Is a payment plan available?”
I understand that sometimes money is tight, and you’ve got things you are trying to afford for. And that you may have already spent a lot of money on trying to help your loved one.
So, yes, we have payment plan options starting as low as $176 per month. All the details are on the next page, so click the green button on your screen now to see those options.
“What if I’m pressed for time? I feel like I’m drowning already?”
I’m busy. I got stuff. I have a life. I have things going on. Listen, the program is broken up into manageable pieces on purpose. It’s bite size — on purpose.
It’s thirty minutes a day, five days a week of focused activity and we tell you exactly what to do.
And if you’ve got more time, you can go deeper.
And I need you to know that there is no fluff at all in this program. No filler to make it seem bigger. Only the essential information you need to succeed.
“What if I have a specific question or a unique situation or I’m in crisis or panic?”
I KNOW you have some burning questions right now that you NEED answered to relieve yourself of the years of built-up stress, and worry, and anxiety about your loved one’s well-being.
That’s why our coaches are available to you in our Secret Group EVERY DAY, whenever you need us. Most “coaches” disappear and offer no real support. We’re old school. We’ll be here for you during your entire healing journey.
And, before you ask, yep, even on weekends.
The other women in this special community are always there also and so supportive of each other. We help one another. You’ll see for yourself. My personal commitment to your success is beyond anything you can imagine.
“When will my loved one make better choices?”
I don’t know. However, I do know that they make “micro-choices” on the way to long-term change. We’re committed to helping you see, appreciate, and respond to their progress. You can “love them” without having to “fix” them.
And I do know that this type of approach is the only way your loved one has a CHANCE to choose a better life for him or herself.
There is quite honestly no other way to do this out there that uses the "Love Another Way" framework to create positive change for family after family as quickly as this does.
Nothing that’s as up to date with what works and what doesn’t, and that, frankly, gets people so excited that women are telling their therapists about it --- and then those therapists are referring other women to me.
One amazing clinician, Betsy Martellucci says:
“If anything is going to help your loved one, Barbara’s program is what will help.”
And another, Katie McKendry says:
“If you really want to help your loved one choose recovery, learn to love in a little different way. That is why I recommend Barbara's program to the women who need it.”
“I still have a question. How do I ask it?”
Just send an email to support at Live Well and Fully dot com.
Or click here to schedule a 15-minute “clarity call” with one of our Love Another Way coaches.
You will get a personal answer and we’ll sort it out.
Because we are for real. Promise
“What happens when the ten weeks are over?”
You have lifetime access to all the materials in your private membership platform. All the expert videos on WHY this is happening. And WHAT you can do to love another way using your Cognitive Care Plan.
You have your own 100% private login as soon as you sign up. No one else will even know you’re logged in.
Plus, as I just mentioned, you’ll be able to jump on a private call to identify what you’ve put in place and how comfortable you are with it. We’ll create a personalized plan to maintain the healing and growth of both you AND your loved one forever onward.
“I have a therapist and/or a group I already attend. Is this program suitable for me?”
Yes, absolutely!
Our students refer us to their therapists over and over, and their therapists refer other clients back to us! This experience works beautifully with therapy and other group programs. Think of it as a jump-start to everything you are already working towards.
“I’m the father, the grandmother, the aunt, the friend. May I still join?”
Yes, absolutely!
This program works well for anyone who loves a person who is struggling. Fathers, Grandparents, stepparents, aunts and uncles, friends, etc. We are glad you are here, and we're here to help!
“Is this Tough Love?”
No — this is way different from my interpretation of Tough Love today. Even the term “Tough Love” is not consistently understood.
“How can I join?”
Click the button below, complete the payment form and you’re in. Simple as that.
I really liked how interactive the program was, going over homework and the ideas from other women helps so much.
- Nancy
I accept where my son is and I accept his life, despite things I do not agree with. It is his life to choose how he wants to live it!
- Laura
I am really focusing on enjoying each day and being more present for those I love. Life is too short not too!
- Karen
I am proud of how far I have come with less worry, more self care and how much I have learned and how much it has helped not only me but my son and all my family.
- [name withheld due to privacy]
Less anger towards my son. Less guilt that I should be able to fix this. Just the support of the group on the calls (as well as regular zoom meetings) has made a huge difference. I'm not wearing out my family and friends like I use to.
- Carla
I’ve changed and I apologized to all my children for hurting them unknowingly with my previous behavior.
- Jill
A spiralling conversation turned around when I inserted a pause and boundary in conversation.
- Susan
My family is seeing me take care of my priorities for myself. I would like to think they see me worry less and being more grounded and equipped about mental health and addiction.
- Kristina
Things are calmer, less stressful.
- Patricia
I got my life back. Yes, I still love my son and worry about him. But I'm realistic and understand that HE needs to make the changes and advocate for himself.
- [name withheld due to privacy]
I am proud of the fact that I've stuck with the program and given it my best effort to help me help myself and my son.